It’s my two month birthday, y’all!
Well, almost. ; ) Tomorrow actually marks the big milestone for my baby boy whom I’ve spent nearly every waking moment with since the day he was born. Lincoln brings me so much joy. At least once a day I lean down, smell the top of his head, and think, Oh my gosh, I have a baby. I. Have. A. BABY! It’s still very surreal.
Over the past two months I’ve laughed, cried, yawned, and laughed some more – this child is seriously a comedian in the making (just like his Dad!) I know every parent thinks their child hung the moon and we’re no different. Every funny, cute, and silly face Lincoln makes melts our hearts.
Don’t get me wrong, this has also been the most challenging two months of my entire life. It’s been tiring, stressful, and down right HARD (and did I mention tiring?) but the good has outweighed the difficult. With a face like this, how could I not feel like the luckiest lady in the world?
Here’s what else is on my mommy mind (a concept snagged from my fab sister-in-law!)
* I look back at my 10 Things Nobody Told Me About Having a Newborn post and giggle a little. Wow, I was definitely still riding the hormone roller coaster when I wrote that! Meals are hot again, laundry has lessened, and the back has toughened up, but yes, I’m still sweating. Profusely.
* I have professed my lack of patience here on the blog many times, but having a baby has really given me a crash course in the virtue – quick! Two month old babies can’t be reasoned with or rushed, nor do they deserve to, so there’s been no choice but to submit and freaking relax.
* When I was pregnant I stressed out wondering if I’d be able to read my baby’s cues. How would I be able to tell the difference between a hungry cry, and a sleepy wail? The good news is, you just know. Luckily Lincoln doesn’t usually fuss for no reason, so it’s been pretty easy to learn what he wants, and when.
* I’m so grateful to have my parents in town who jump at the chance to watch Lincoln for a few hours when Ben and I want to catch a quick dinner out, or need to run a few errands solo. I didn’t grow up near any of my Grandparents, so I’m glad that L will get to know them from the start.
* Weekends are my favorite not only because Ben is home, but because I can shower. Truly shower. Long, glorious showers!
* Before Lincoln, I looked at pregnant women with envy. When I was pregnant, I looked at women with babies and became impatient. Now when I see parents with their toddlers I can’t wait to get there. Told you I have a patience problem! I’m not wishing away a SECOND of my snuggly infant time, but I’m excited for him to start holding his head up so that we can roughhouse a little.
* Being a work at home mom is incredibly difficult but I’m eternally grateful that I get to stay home with Lincoln all day, for now anyway. That’s why I shot for a career in full-time blogging/freelance writing with a flexible schedule, over a more traditional 9-5 job. I work during his naps and on the weekends.
* I find it comforting yet sad that everything we’re experiencing right now is temporary. It’s nice to know that someday in the future Ben and I won’t be waking up in the middle of the night for feedings, for instance, but sad knowing that in order to get there Lincoln has to grow up. All his newborn clothes have been packed away, and I teared up folding them remembering how impossibly tiny he was to fit into them. It’s weird knowing that he will never, ever be that small again. Sigh…
* Ben is a wonderful co-parent. I’ve been pumping since the hospital so he’s been able to feed Lincoln around 1 or 2am every night. Right now Lincoln’s occasionally sleeping through this feeding until 3 or 4am (6 hour sleep stretches – hallelujah!) so I just pick up there, but it’s nice knowing I have a partner who’s willing to do anything I’d do myself. Everything is 50/50 yet nobody’s keeping score.
* That being said, single parents are the real super heroes in this world. I panic at the thought of Ben going out of town for work for one night.
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* And finally, my baby gives the best kisses/face mashes. What a flirt. ; )
Thanks, as always, for reading along on this crazy adventure called parenthood!
Rose @ Revel with Rose 09.26.2013
I love this. Your little guy is so adorable! My son is a few weeks ahead of yours at 11 weeks and I couldn’t relate more. It is hard! It’s getting easier though :) Thank you for sharing!
Rachel 09.26.2013
Lincoln is such a sweet adorable baby! :) I’m glad my 5-year-old is still somewhat of a snuggler, although he can’t seem to sit still for more than 30 seconds these days. I don’t miss the confusion and exhaustion of his newborn days, but I miss how tiny he was and how fun it was getting to know him.
Carole Ann Spear 09.26.2013
Isn’t Lincoln lucky to have parents who not only love him, but have fun with him? He is a beautiful child, that is your reward for being who you are…
Lisa Frank 09.26.2013
He is seriously the most expressive 2 month old I’ve ever seen! I don’t remember my kids making such hilarious faces when they were so young. He cracks me up and is simply adorable!! You should gather together all his hilarious expressions each month and make a mini flip book out of them. :)
Jill 09.26.2013
You count his months by the weeks after his birth date? So he will turn 12 months before his actual bday next year? Either way…he has the cutest facial expressions I’ve ever seen! love!
Allison 09.26.2013
He is a DOLL! So happy for you.
Marci 09.26.2013
Aw, I miss the baby days!! Our little monster is 2, and there are still times when we cannot believe that we were blessing with such an amazing child :)
Lucy 09.26.2013
What a peach! Even with a four and almost 6-year-old, I still feel like all of those infant times happened yesterday (especially that picture of him snuggled in your arms … holy cuteness!). It’s funny though; I used to wish for the toddler/preschool years, too, but now that they are here for me I often long for the infant days back (or maybe just one day. The sleepless nights are for the birds!). The walking years will be here soon enough; for now, just enjoy that he will stay (and sleep in) a stroller and that his opinions are minimal, if any : ) Happy (almost) weekend!
Jacquelyn 09.26.2013
Congrats to you, Kristin. He is A-DOR-ABLE! My husband and I have a four-month old daughter and I can relate to every single thing you’ve said. I might also add–all the things you thought you’d never say/do as a parent–you do them! Eating my words quite often these days…
Sherry 09.26.2013
Lincoln can’t be two months old already! My gosh, he is just the cutest little guy. I’m just next door in Nebraska… how about I just stop by for a quick snuggle with him. :)
Enjoy every moment!
Hannah @ CleanEatingVeggieGirl 09.26.2013
He has the absolute CUTEST facial expressions ever! I am sure he keeps you awfully entertained :).
Theresa 09.26.2013
Loved reading this! He’s a cutie, love that last pic of him giving Mom a little kiss :)
WendyG 09.26.2013
I don’t know if it is because I am prego or because your post was just THAT precious (I think that latter) but I am BAWLING like a baby myself. Your words are my dreams of what I hope to feel in 14 weeks!!!!!!!!!!I just can not even fathom what parenthood is going to be like. Thank you for being such a wonderful role model to us future moms!
Ashley @ My Food N Fitness Diaries 09.26.2013
What an adorable little guy! Hard to believe he’s already two months old! It just gets better and better. :)
Gretchen 09.26.2013
My daughter is about 2 weeks older than Lincoln so I love your updates on him. I hear you about the last 2 months being the hardest, but it is getting easier. I’m jealous your parents are close by–mine just visited for 10 days and finally got to meet her. We are in Germany because my husband is in the Army, so I don’t have any family or close friends here. AND my husband is currently on a week-long trip, but it isn’t as bad as I’d expected. Which is good because in October he’s going somewhere else for 3 WEEKS. I think it’s worse on him than me. As exhausting as it is, aren’t we lucky that we get to stay home with them all the time? I’ve only been away from her for 2 hours total, as pathetic as that is. I bet if my parents were close that would change.
Okay this was apparently me just blathering. Keep up the Lincoln posts–I love them!!
dee 09.26.2013
Oh my goodness. He is precious! That last picture is all sorts of awesome.
Julie 09.26.2013
Happy 2 month birthday! Thanks for sharing your special little guy’s milestones with your readers. :)
Laura 09.26.2013
Oh my gosh your baby is so cute! He looks like he’s trying to bench press in the bottom left picture :). Or at least I’m pretty sure that’s what I look like when I’m trying to bench press. Love your blog!
Tracy 09.26.2013
I’m really not “just saying this”, but Lincoln is a REALLY cute baby!!! He’s darling! Those expressions :)
Andrea @ The Fit coop 09.26.2013
Ah, this post is making me impatient for my baby to arrive!!! I’m not due until Nov 13 sadly. Great post and what a little cutie!