I know I said Lincoln at 5 months was the best yet, but 6 months is definitely snagging the coveted spot. We’ve seen SO many changes, both physical and developmental in our little guy this month, it’s unbelievable. Here’s what’s on My Mommy Mind!
Lincoln is now able to sit up by himself for long stretches of time. It was crazy. We worked and worked on it with no luck, then one day, just like that, he was sitting! It just goes to show that babies will do things when they’re good and ready.
Along with sitting comes a new found sense of independence. While it’s nice that I can plop Lincoln down with a basket of toys to entertain himself with for 20 minutes, I find myself missing him needing me. Then I realize how insane that sounds and go do something productive with my life.
Seriously Mom? Can’t you see I’m busy over here?!
I had my first “I’m failing as a mother/wife/small business owner/human being” meltdown a few weeks ago. It involved a crying mama holding a crying baby and was, well, ugly. Please tell me I’m not the only one? I’ve been trying to cut myself some more slack since then.
So much worrying comes with being a Mom. I’m constantly asking myself if my baby is happy enough, if I’m playing with him enough (or too much,) if he’s learning enough, if he’s having enough experiences, if I’m doing the right things at the right age. I’ve heard many women express fear about becoming a Mom. News flash: we’re making it up as we go!
Lincoln is our snuggle bug and putting him down for naps and to bed are actually my favorite parts of the day. He’ll snuggle in chest to chest, let me give him lots of kisses, and then I’ll let him lay there probably a little too long because IT’S THE BEST FEELING IN THE ENTIRE WORLD.
I’ve come to accept the fact that my house will be cluttered and un-tidy for the next 18 years. I never thought I’d be that person with baby gear/toys all over the house, but I am. And I don’t even care.
It’s crazy to me that, as parents of an infant, we’re making 99.99% of the decisions for another human being. Where they sit, when they eat, what they eat, where they go, what they wear, etc… This kind of feeds into the worrying – I have so many important decisions to make for this tiny fragile life. I don’t want to screw it up! BTW, is making your child wear a fedora indoors while you vacuum with him strapped to your chest because it makes you so happy ok??
We started solids this month. For about a week after we began Lincoln was EXTREMELY cranky, to the point where we stopped because he was just a completely different child (ie the catalyst to my Mommy meltdown!) Our doctor encouraged us to try again, and he’s doing just fine now. We think it was just his digestive systems getting used to a different type of nutrition.
Right now he gets oatmeal twice a day with a rotation of avocado, butternut squash, sweet potato, pears, prunes, and peas, so far. Peas are his favorite – go figure! (I hate ’em!)
A WONDERFUL side effect of starting solids (the second time)? He’s finally sleeping through the night! I know they say the two aren’t related, but since the night we started solids (again, the second time) he sleeps from 7pm to 7:30am, with feedings at 9pm and 6am. He’s had a couple of random 1am wake ups since then, but I can’t tell you how thrilling it is to go to bed without the dread of not knowing what’s coming in the overnight hours.
Lest you think it’s all sunshine and rainbows, his naps are back to being all over the place. Ay yi yi. These babies are lucky they’re so darn cute!!
Lastly, at 6 months Lincoln’s personality is really shining through. He’s the absolute happiest when he’s got the attention of both Mom and Dad – like, limbs flailing around, happy – and is never without a smile when I call his name. Unless it’s after 5:30pm. Then, well, he doesn’t. ; )
At least once a day I still marvel over the fact that he’s ours to keep forever. Other women need not apply! (Seriously, what am I going to do when he starts dating? I can’t even!)
Ooo, lastly lastly – we cannot WAIT for warmer weather! Walks, walks, walks! #alldayerrday
Danielle B. 02.25.2014
I love these mommy and Lincoln updates. I love reading baby updates. It is so crazy to see how much Lincoln has changed over the last 6 months. He is adorable!
Jamie 02.24.2014
My son is about the same age…within in weeks. It’s fun to see what you are going though at the same time!! It’s that whole….”you are not alone” out there in the mommy world feeling!!
My son is starting to army crawl now & we need to start baby proofing….I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE TO START!!! Oh boy….these little guys are going to make grey hairs fast!!
Erin 02.20.2014
Man oh man he’s cute! I have enjoyed each age/stage more than the last, even the terrible 3’s at the time. The fact that you wonder of you’re doing it right, means you’re doing it right! I figure the first one is the trial kid, then just when you think you have it figured out, the next one will be totally different. I have no doubt you’re doing great!
debtgirl 02.20.2014
Oh kids come with all kinds of worry and stress! You will be fine, you are doing great, he is beautiful!
My daughter is 14 (15 in May) and I worry as much as I did the day she was born just in different context!
You are a wonderful parent. They don’t come with a manual, they are all customized!
Have fun!
xoxoxoxo
Tami Black 02.20.2014
Okay, so my son is soon to be 23 and graduating Summa Cum Laude from college and I still have meltdowns! HE DOESN’T NEED ME ANYMORE! Gone are the days when we discussed things indepth. Gone are the days when he asked for my advice and actually listened. When he entered college it was hard enough, but now, he is going to be out there in the big, bad world all by himself! It is so hard to see them grow up and leave the nest…I’m living vicariously through your posts about Lincoln and love the pictures — he is one cutie patootie! And about the fedora — what a fabulous picture! Whatever makes you happy and he will tolerate, I say GO FOR IT!
Love your blog and you are the first food blogger I have ever followed. Totally addicted!@!
Stacy 02.20.2014
Don’t you ever feel like you are failing! Being a mom is your first and #1 job! It has its ups and downs, you just gotta go with the flow or you will drive yourself crazy! Don’t worry honey, we have all been there! Just relax with a nice cup of coffee and breathe, everything will be ok! I have been trying to blog for the past two years as I am now at home FT, it is hard as I always struggle with balance everyday!
Brittany (Healthy Slice of Life) 02.20.2014
I think in every single one of my baby updates I stated that the newest age was my favorite! True to form, I think almost 2.5 years old is my new favorite, but no need to rush through it ;)
The experience of being a parent and having a front-row seat to your child’s development is indescribable. I’m glad you are having fun with it and cutting yourself some slack along the way.
Love reading about Lincoln’s updates!
Susan the farm quilter 02.19.2014
Your son is so adorable! Now, you, as a mother, are obviously doing a great job – he is happy, secure and content to entertain himself (amazing!!!). You are setting him up to be independently dependent – just perfect!! On the sleeping all night, my pediatrician told me years ago that babies need XX amount of calories in a 24 hour period and when they get it, they will sleep all night for you. He told me to nurse my daughter every 2 hours beginning at 5 and putting her to bed at 11 and this was when she was an infant. It really helped! Love these updates and seeing his sweet smiling face!
Melissa 02.19.2014
Hi Kristin! I have a question…so our 6 month old is on the same sleep schedule (goes to sleep at 7pm with feedings at 9pm and 6am). But, he is always wide awake after his 6am feeding, even if I keep the lights off. How do you get Lincoln to go back to sleep til 7:30am? I get worried our little guy isn’t getting enough sleep since he’s not sleeping 12 full hours!
Vickie 02.19.2014
Hey. He is so darn cute. You are doing great, he looks very healthy and happy…don’t be too hard on yourself. Enjoy every moment, they go by so fast!!!
Katie 02.19.2014
Your son looks happy and healthy. Try not to be so hard on yourself, trust your decision making skills and have faith.
Jodea 02.19.2014
I am NOT usually a baby person but Lincoln makes me broody! If I was guaranteed a cutie like him I’d be all over motherhood!
Nichole 02.19.2014
Thanks for the update! I have a little girl that is two-ish months. It’s been really cool to see our progress through pregnancy and now through parenthood. “One day at a time” has been my mantra ;-D
Dawn@OfficeGymRepeat 02.19.2014
His eyes are so huge and blue and adorable! He is so precious :) I can’t wait to one day have one of my own to keep forever, your stories really make me look forward to one day being a mom :)
Whitney @ To Live & Diet in L.A. 02.19.2014
Lincoln is just the cutest little guy ever! I wouldn’t ever want him to date either, haha! What a fun age :)
Jenalee 02.19.2014
I absolutely love your posts about your little man. So handsome! I am not a mom quite yet, but have hopes to be one day. Thank you for the small glimpses into motherhood. Love your insight!
Melody 02.19.2014
Good morning! Being a fellow Iowan and the mother of 2 grown boys, I have so enjoyed your blog. Right after reading your post today I read a devotional from a mother reflecting on the changes of her son as he has grown. I thought you might enjoy her perspective: http://sharonjaynes.com/life-is-a-collection-of-memoriesdont-forget-to-treasure-them/#sthash.WGVo3H9z.dpbs
Enjoy!
AmberLynn Pappas 02.19.2014
I think we’ve all had that Mommy Melt Down at one point or another. I’m pretty sure that I’ve had at least one for each of my kids!
The photo of Lincoln in playing the piano made me both smile and feel sad. We had that same sleep and play outfit for both of our boys and it was one of our favorites to see them in. However, it was newborn size and our kids were both over 8lbs at birth. It was a sad day when I gave it away and knew that there would never be another little one of mine to hold in that little green suit.
Enjoy your beautiful boy!
Jade @ Bits & Bobs 02.19.2014
When it comes to be a mummy, I think we will always think the next stage is better than the last. Lincoln is such a cutie!
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